Sex Lubricants Essentials

Sex Lubricants and Intimate Essentials for Comfort and Play

This collection brings together the everyday essentials that make sex and toy play more comfortable, safer and more fun. You will find sex lubricants in water-based, silicone-based, flavoured, warming and anal formulas, alongside condoms, massage oils and candles, stimulating gels, intimate cosmetics, edible body treats and toy cleaners. It is for anyone who wants smoother glide, better protection or a more sensual build-up, whether you are on your own, with a regular partner or trying something new. Brands include Pjur, Durex, Shunga, Eros, Intimateline and Control. Check each listing for the formula, size and compatibility details before you buy.

Why Sex Lubricants and Essentials Matter

Lubricant is one of the simplest ways to make intimacy more comfortable. Natural lubrication varies from day to day and person to person, and it can be affected by stress, hormones, medication or simply the length of a session. A good lube reduces friction, which can make penetration, toy play and masturbation feel smoother and more relaxed.

For Partnered Sex

Lube can make penetrative sex more comfortable and is especially useful with condoms, which can feel dry on their own. Choosing a lubricant that suits your condom is important, as explained in the safety section below.

For Toy Play

Most toys glide better with lubricant, and some toys, such as anal toys and male masturbator sleeves, need it every time. The right formula depends on the toy's material. Whether you use vibrators, dildos or strokers, matching your lube to the toy helps it last longer.

For Foreplay and Sensual Massage

Massage oils, candles, flavoured gels and body paints are designed to slow things down. They turn foreplay into something more playful and help you and your partner relax before sex.

Types of Sex Lubricants

Water-Based Lubricants

Water-based lube is the most versatile choice. It is generally suitable for use with latex condoms and with toys of every material, including silicone. It rinses off easily with water and does not usually stain sheets. Because it absorbs and dries over time, you may need to reapply during longer sessions. If you are unsure which lubricant to choose, a water-based lubricant is usually the safest choice.

Silicone-Based Lubricants

Silicone lube lasts longer than water-based lube and does not wash away as quickly in water, which makes it popular for shower play and longer sessions. It is generally suitable for latex condoms. Avoid using it with silicone toys unless the toy's maker says it is fine, because it can damage the surface. It needs soap and water to wash off.

Anal Lubricants

Anal lubes are usually thicker and longer lasting, because the anus does not produce its own lubrication. Some are described as relaxing, and a few contain a mild numbing ingredient. Numbing can mask pain, which is your body's signal to slow down or stop, so many people prefer a non-numbing formula. Our anal sex toys and anal douching collections have more for anal play.

Flavoured, Warming and Cooling Lubes

Flavoured lubes are designed to be kissable for oral play and come in a wide range of fruit, sweet and cocktail flavours. Warming and cooling lubes add a temperature sensation. These can feel intense on sensitive skin, so try a small amount first.

Natural, Organic and Vegan Formulas

Some brands, such as Eros and Shunga, offer organic or vegan formulas, often with aloe vera or plant extracts. Check the ingredients list on each listing if you prefer to avoid certain ingredients, fragrances or added sugars.

Other Intimate Essentials

Condoms

We stock condoms from Durex, Control, Skins, Pasante and others, including ultra-thin, ribbed and dotted, extra-large, novelty and latex-free options. Bulk packs are also available. Browse our dedicated condoms collection for the full range.

Massage Oils, Gels and Candles

Massage oils, warming gels and massage candles that melt into a warm oil help set the mood. Many are scented or edible. Remember that most oils should not be used with latex condoms.

Stimulating Gels and Intimate Cosmetics

Stimulating gels and creams for her and for him are designed to create a tingling, warming or cooling sensation on intimate skin. There are also delay sprays and creams, some of which contain a local anaesthetic that numbs the area. These are cosmetic products, not medicines. Follow the label closely, and speak to a GP about any ongoing sexual health concerns.

Pheromone Perfumes and Body Treats

Pheromone perfumes and roll-ons are best enjoyed as fragrances, because there is no reliable scientific evidence that they change how other people behave. Edible body powders, paints and kissable glosses add a playful touch to foreplay.

Toy Cleaners

Toy cleaning sprays and foams are made to clean toys without harsh chemicals. They are useful when you do not have warm water and mild soap to hand.

How to Choose Sex Lubricants

• Condom use: With latex condoms, choose a water-based or silicone-based lubricant. Do not use oil-based products with latex condoms.
• Toy material: Water-based lube suits toys of every material. Avoid silicone lube on silicone toys unless the maker says it is fine.
• Activity: Choose a thicker lube for anal play, a long-lasting silicone lube for the shower, or a flavoured lube for oral play.
• Sensitive skin: Look for simple, fragrance-free formulas, and avoid warming, cooling or flavoured lubes if you tend to react to them.
• Size: Small pocket sizes and single sachets are handy for trying a new lube or for travel. Larger bottles suit regular use.

Safe Use of Sex Lubricants and Condoms

Lubricants and Condoms

• No oil with latex: Oil-based lubricants, massage oils and some creams can weaken latex condoms. Use a water-based or silicone-based lubricant instead.
• Latex allergy: Do not use latex condoms if you or your partner have a latex allergy. Choose latex-free condoms, and check the packet to see what a condom is made of.
• Use a new condom each time: Follow the instructions on the packet and check the use-by date.

The NHS explains how to use condoms correctly, including which lubricants to choose, on its page about condoms.

Protecting Sensitive Skin

• Patch test first: Try a small amount of any new lube, gel or oil on the inside of your arm and wait to see if there is a reaction.
• Stop if irritated: Wash the product off with water if you notice stinging, itching or redness, and stop using it.
• Use as directed: Only apply products where the label says they are suitable. Keep products out of the eyes.
• Numbing products: Use anaesthetic delay products sparingly and as the label directs, and do not use numbing products to push through pain.

Storing Sex Lubricants, Condoms and Oils

• Keep lids closed: Close bottles and tubes tightly after use to keep the formula fresh and clean.
• Store somewhere cool: Keep lubricants, oils and condoms away from heat and direct sunlight. Do not keep condoms in a wallet or car for long periods.
• Check use-by dates: Lubricants, cosmetics and condoms all have a use-by date. Do not use them after it has passed.
• Clean up afterwards: Water-based lube rinses off with water. Silicone lube and oils need soap and water, and can make floors and baths slippery.
• Keep them private: Store intimate products out of reach of children.

Why Buy Sex Lubricants from DelighToys

• A wide choice: Lubricants, condoms, massage oils and intimate cosmetics from brands such as Pjur, Durex, Shunga, Eros and Intimateline.
• Clear product information: Each listing shows the formula, size and use guidance provided by the manufacturer.
• Discreet packaging: Orders are sent in plain, unbranded packaging with no product names visible.
• UK, Ireland and EU delivery: We deliver across the UK, to Ireland and throughout the EU, with a secure online checkout.

If you use sleeves or strokers, you will find water-based lubes that suit them alongside our male masturbators.

Stock Up on Your Intimate Essentials

Ready to make every moment more comfortable? Browse our lubricants, condoms and intimate essentials above, compare formulas and sizes on each listing, and order with discreet delivery to the UK, Ireland and the EU.