Gay Sex Toys for Men

Gay Sex Toys for Men – Prostate Toys, Plugs, Dildos and More

Gay sex toys bring together everything men who have sex with men are most likely to look for, in one place. This collection covers prostate massagers, butt plugs, realistic and suction cup dildos, cock rings, strokers, chastity devices, harnesses, anal douches and men's underwear such as jocks and briefs. Whether you are exploring anal play for the first time, adding toys to sex with a partner or building a fetish wardrobe, there is a wide choice of styles, sizes and materials. Compare the size, material, power source and care guidance on each listing to find toys that suit your body and the way you like to play.

Exploring Toys for Solo and Partnered Play

Every man's preferences are different, and many enjoy a mix of internal, external and fetish play. Thinking about what you want to feel, and who you will be playing with, makes the range easier to navigate.

Anal and Prostate Play

Plugs, prostate massagers and dildos are central to many gay men's toy collections. The prostate sits a few centimetres inside the body towards the front, which is why prostate toys are curved. Plugs offer a feeling of fullness and can stay in place, while dildos are used for thrusting or riding. Start small and build up gradually as you learn what feels good.

Toys to Use Together

Cock rings, vibrating rings, remote control plugs and strap-ons all add something to partnered sex. Remote toys let one partner control the other's sensations, and double-ended or hollow designs can be shared. Talk first about what you both want to try and agree how to signal that you want to slow down or stop.

Fetish and Kink

Leather and chain harnesses, chastity cages, fetish briefs and bondage-style accessories suit men who enjoy power play, dressing up or a stronger visual element. If restraint or impact play interests you, our BDSM and bondage toys collection has cuffs, gags, paddles and more.

Types of Gay Sex Toys

Prostate Massagers

Prostate massagers are angled to press towards the prostate, with a flared base or handle for safety. Some are unpowered, while others vibrate, rotate or come with a remote. Explore our full range of prostate massagers to compare shapes and features.

Butt Plugs

Plugs range from small beginner sizes to large stretching plugs, in silicone, glass, metal and other materials. You will find beaded, inflatable, vibrating and remote control designs, plus novelty and Pride-themed options. Browse our dedicated butt plugs collection for the complete range.

Realistic and Suction Cup Dildos

Realistic dildos have a lifelike head, veins and often testicles, and many have a suction cup base for hands-free riding. King Cock, Mr Intense and All Black models come in a range of lengths and widths, and some use dual or triple density for a firm core with a softer skin. See our realistic dildos for more lifelike options. Double-ended dildos and vibrating or thrusting designs are also available.

Cock Rings and Ball Rings

Rings sit at the base of the penis, or around the penis and testicles, and are designed to help an erection feel firmer. Choose from stretchy TPE and silicone, adjustable straps, metal and vibrating rings, as well as combination rings with an attached anal plug. Visit our cock rings for every style.

Strokers and Masturbators

Manual sleeves, Tenga cups and automatic strokers that vibrate, rotate, heat or thrust are all part of this collection. Some designs have anal-style or discreet entrances, and others work hands-free.

Chastity, Harnesses and Specialist Toys

Metal and plastic chastity cages, penis sleeves and extenders, strap-on harnesses and leather body harnesses add options for kink and role-play. These items need careful sizing, so read the measurements and safety notes on each listing.

Men's Underwear and Fetish Wear

Jocks, open-back bikinis, thongs, briefs and leather-look fetish pieces from brands such as Anais Men, Cut4Men and Macho complete the range. Size guidance varies by brand, so check the size chart on each listing.

Anal Douches and Essentials

Many men like to rinse before anal play. Douche bulbs with smooth, rounded nozzles are available here, along with lubricants and toy cleaners.

How to Choose Gay Sex Toys

• Experience level: If you are new to anal play, start with a small, smooth plug or slim prostate massager before moving to larger toys.
• Size: Compare insertable length and diameter carefully. It is usually better to size down and build up.
• Material: Silicone is soft and flexible, glass and metal are firm and can be warmed or cooled, and TPE or PVC feel softer but need more care. Check the material stated by the maker.
• Base and handle: Any toy used anally must have a flared base or handle that stops it slipping inside.
• Powered or manual: Vibrating, rotating and remote control toys add sensation, while manual toys are simpler, quieter and easier to clean. Check whether a model is rechargeable or uses batteries.
• Water resistance: Some toys are described as waterproof. Confirm this on the listing if you want to use a toy in the shower.

Safer Anal Play and Toy Use

Before and During Play

• Use plenty of lubricant: The anus does not produce its own lubrication, so apply lube generously and reapply often. If you are unsure, a water-based lubricant is usually the safest choice.
• Match lube to material: Avoid silicone-based lube with silicone toys unless the manufacturer says it is fine.
• Relax and go slowly: Take time to warm up, breathe steadily and stop if you feel pain.
• Flared base only: Never use an object without a flared base or handle for anal play.

Rings, Chastity and Specialist Items

• Watch the time: Follow the maker's time limit for cock rings and chastity devices, and remove them straight away if you feel pain, coldness or numbness.
• Check the fit: Measure carefully before buying a chastity cage or metal ring, and choose adjustable or stretchy designs if you are unsure.
• Electro toys: Only use devices designed for the body, never above the waist or near the heart, and not if you have a heart condition or pacemaker.

Condoms and Lubricant

If you use condoms on toys or during sex, the NHS advises using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant, because oil-based lubricants can damage latex condoms. The NHS page on condoms also explains how to choose a non-latex option if you have a latex allergy. Wash shared toys between uses and cover them with a new condom each time.

Cleaning and Care

• Clean after every use: Wash toys with warm water and mild, unscented soap or a toy cleaner, then rinse and dry fully. Follow the care instructions supplied with your product.
• Protect electronics: Do not submerge powered toys unless they are described as waterproof, and keep charging ports dry.
• Look after strokers: Let sleeves air-dry completely and use a renewing powder if the maker recommends one.
• Clean douches carefully: Rinse the bulb and nozzle inside and out after use and let them dry before storing.
• Wash underwear gently: Follow the care label on each garment, especially for leather-look and fetish fabrics.
• Store separately: Keep toys in pouches or their boxes, away from heat and sunlight, and keep silicone toys apart from other materials.

Why Buy Gay Sex Toys from DelighToys

• A wide choice in one place: Plugs, prostate toys, dildos, rings, strokers, harnesses and underwear from brands such as Anais Men, King Cock, California Exotics, Tenga and Baile.
• Clear product information: Each listing shows the size, material, power source and care guidance stated by the manufacturer.
• Discreet packaging: Orders are sent in unbranded, plain packaging so the contents stay private.
• UK, Ireland and EU delivery: We ship to customers in the UK, Ireland and across the EU, with a secure online checkout.

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