Metal Dildos

Metal Dildos – Smooth, Weighty and Made for Temperature Play

Metal dildos offer a firm, smooth and noticeably heavier feel than silicone or rubber toys, with no motor and no give in the shaft. Our current selection is small and carefully chosen: a dual-ended stainless steel wand from LELO and a ridged aluminium electro dildo from ElectraStim that can be used on its own or with an electro-stimulation unit. These toys suit people who enjoy firm pressure, deliberate movement and the cool or warm sensations that metal holds so well. If you are comparing materials, you can also browse our glass dildos or the full dildos range.

Why Choose a Metal Dildo

Metal changes how a dildo feels in the hand and in use. Before you buy, it helps to understand what makes these toys different from softer materials.

Firmness and Weight

A metal shaft does not bend or compress, so every movement transfers directly into pressure. The extra weight means the toy can do some of the work for you, which many people find satisfying for slow, deliberate strokes or focused internal pressure. The same firmness means you should take your time, use plenty of lubricant and move gently, especially at first.

Temperature Play

Metal takes on temperature quickly and holds it. A short rest in warm water makes the toy feel cosy, while cool water gives a fresh, tingling contrast. Always test the temperature on your inner wrist before use, avoid extreme heat or cold, and never heat a toy directly on a hob, in a microwave or with a hairdryer.

Silent and Low Maintenance

A non-vibrating metal dildo has no motor, battery or charging port, so it is completely silent and there are no electronics to protect. A smooth metal surface is non-porous and easy to clean thoroughly, which is one reason many people choose metal as a long-term toy.

Metal Dildos in Our Range

Because the range is small, the details of each product matter. Read every listing carefully for length, diameter, weight and finish.

Stainless Steel Dual-Ended Wands

The LELO Olga Oro is a non-vibrating, dual-ended stainless steel dildo with a different shape at each end, so you can turn it around to switch sensations. The listing gives its length as 19.5 cm and its width as 5 cm, which makes it a substantial, weighty toy. If you like the idea of two shapes in one toy, explore our double-ended dildos in other materials as well.

Electro-Stimulation Metal Dildos

The ElectraStim Wave is a bi-polar electro dildo made from marine-grade aluminium, with full curves and deep ridges along the shaft. You can use it as a cool, textured metal dildo on its own, or connect it to a compatible ElectraStim stimulation unit, which sends gentle electrical pulses that make the surrounding muscles tighten and relax. The stimulation unit is a separate device, so check the listing for what is included and which units are compatible.

How to Choose a Metal Dildo

• Size: Metal does not compress, so compare length and diameter carefully and choose a size you are confident with. If you are unsure, size down.
• Weight: Heavier toys give stronger pressure but need more control. Check the weight on the listing if it is given.
• Shape and texture: Smooth curves suit gentle, gliding movement, while ridged designs add more noticeable texture with each stroke.
• Electro or non-electro: Decide whether you only want a classic metal dildo or would also like the option of electro-stimulation with a separate unit.
• Type of metal: Stainless steel and aluminium are both used for toys. Check the metal named by the manufacturer, especially if you have a known metal sensitivity.
• Where it will be used: Only use a toy anally if it is designed for anal use and has a flared base or handle that stops it slipping inside.

Safe Use of Metal and Electro Dildos

General Comfort

• Use plenty of lubricant: Metal has no natural slip. If you are unsure, a water-based lubricant is usually the safest choice, and it rinses off easily.
• Go slowly: Because the toy is rigid, insert it gently, avoid twisting at sharp angles and stop if you feel any pain.
• Check the surface: Before each use, look for scratches, dents or rough edges. Stop using a toy if the surface is damaged.
• Test the temperature: Warm or cool the toy only in water, and check it on your inner wrist first.

Electro-Stimulation Safety

• Below the waist only: Never use electro-stimulation above the waist or anywhere near the heart.
• Heart conditions and pacemakers: Do not use electro toys if you have a heart condition, a pacemaker or another implanted electronic device.
• Use only matched equipment: Only connect the dildo to a stimulation unit designed for use on the body, such as the compatible units named by the manufacturer. Never use mains-powered devices or improvised equipment.
• Start on the lowest setting: Turn the unit on at its lowest level and increase slowly. Turn it off before inserting, removing or repositioning the toy.
• Follow the manual: Read the instructions supplied with both the dildo and the unit, including any advice on conductive gel or lubricant.

Hygiene and Sharing

The NHS advises keeping sex toys clean and, if you share them, washing them between each use and covering them with a new condom each time. Read more in the NHS guidance on sex activities and risk.

Cleaning and Caring for Metal Toys

• Wash after every use: Clean the toy with warm water and mild, unscented soap or a dedicated toy cleaner, then rinse well.
• Dry completely: Dry with a soft, lint-free cloth to keep the finish smooth and prevent water marks.
• Keep electro contacts dry: For electro dildos, keep the connection points clean and dry, and follow the maker's cleaning advice before reconnecting to a unit.
• Avoid harsh products: Do not use abrasive pads, bleach or strong chemicals, which can scratch or mark the surface.
• Store safely: Keep metal toys in a soft pouch or their original case so they do not knock against other items or get scratched.

Water-based lubricants and toy cleaners are available in our lubricants and essentials collection.

Why Buy Metal Dildos from DelighToys

• Carefully chosen brands: Our metal toys come from LELO and ElectraStim, two well-known names in their fields.
• Clear product information: Each listing shows the material, size and features stated by the manufacturer, so you can compare before you buy.
• Discreet packaging: We pack orders in unbranded, plain packaging so the contents stay private.
• UK, Ireland and EU delivery: We ship to customers in the UK, Ireland and across the EU, with a secure online checkout.

Shop Metal Dildos with Confidence

Ready to feel the difference metal makes? Browse our metal dildos above, compare size, shape and features on each listing, and order with discreet delivery to the UK, Ireland and the EU.