Dildos come in far more styles than most people expect, which can make choosing one feel confusing. This guide explains the main types of dildos in plain English, from realistic and fantasy designs to G-spot, double-ended, suction-cup, vibrating, glass and metal options. For each type, you will learn what makes it different and who it tends to suit. It suits adults choosing a first dildo or looking to try a new style.
The Short Answer
The main types of dildos are realistic dildos, non-realistic or fantasy dildos, G-spot dildos, double-ended dildos, suction-cup dildos, vibrating dildos, and glass or metal dildos. The types of dildos differ in shape, material, base and whether they vibrate. A smooth, body-safe silicone dildo with a flared or suction base is a simple first choice for many people.
What Separates the Types of Dildos?
Before looking at the types of dildos one by one, it helps to know the four features that separate them. Once you understand these, product pages become much easier to compare.
- Shape: Realistic, smooth, curved or textured.
- Material: Silicone, glass, metal or softer realistic materials.
- Base: A flared base, a suction cup, a harness-compatible base or a second end.
- Function: Some dildos vibrate, while most do not.
Realistic and Non-Realistic Types of Dildos
The first big choice is whether you want a dildo that looks lifelike or one that does not.
Realistic Dildos
Realistic dildos are shaped to resemble a penis, often with detailed texture and skin-like colours. Some have a dual-density design, with a firm core and a softer outer layer. People who enjoy a familiar shape often prefer them. However, the extra texture can mean a little more care when cleaning.
Non-Realistic and Fantasy Dildos
Non-realistic dildos have smooth, abstract or playful shapes. Some come in bright colours or ripple patterns. Fantasy dildos go further, with imaginative designs inspired by creatures and myths. Many people find a non-realistic dildo less intimidating, which makes it a popular first choice.
Types of Dildos by Shape and Purpose
Some types of dildos are designed for a particular kind of stimulation or a particular way of playing.
G-Spot Dildos
G-spot dildos have a curved shaft and often a rounded or bulbous tip. The curve aims to press on the front wall of the vagina. Because the shape does the targeting, they can be easier to angle than a straight dildo.
Double-Ended Dildos
Double-ended dildos have a usable end at each side. Partners can share one at the same time, or a single person can use both ends. Many are flexible so they bend into a comfortable position. If partners share one, talk first and agree how you want to use it.
Suction-Cup Dildos
Suction-cup dildos have a base that sticks to smooth, flat surfaces such as tiles or glass. That means you can use them hands-free. Many suction bases also work with a strap-on harness. Before use, check the cup holds firmly on a clean, dry surface.
Vibrating, Glass and Metal Types of Dildos
The last group of types of dildos stands out because of what they are made of or what they do.
Vibrating Dildos
Vibrating dildos combine a dildo shape with a vibration motor. They suit people who enjoy both fullness and buzz. Most are rechargeable or battery-powered, so check the product page for charging details and any water-resistance rating.
Glass Dildos
Glass dildos are usually made from borosilicate glass, a toughened glass also used in some kitchenware. They are firm, smooth and non-porous. Glass can also be warmed or cooled gently for temperature play. Always check a glass dildo for chips or cracks before each use.
Metal Dildos
Metal dildos are usually stainless steel or aluminium. They are heavy, very firm and non-porous. Like glass, metal holds temperature well. The weight can feel satisfying, but it also means a metal dildo is best for people who already know they enjoy firm toys.
Materials, Lube and Care
Whatever type you choose, look for a non-porous, body-safe material such as silicone, glass or stainless steel. These are easier to clean and keep hygienic. Each product page lists the material, so check it before you buy.
Next, pair your dildo with the right lube. Water-based lube is usually the safest starting point. Silicone-based lube can damage some silicone toys, so check the product guidance. Also, any dildo used for anal play needs a flared base so it cannot slip inside.
Clean your dildo with warm water and a mild, unscented soap or a toy cleaner after each use, and let it dry fully. Brook's guide to sex toys and aids also advises against sharing toys without a fresh condom for each person.
Frequently Asked Questions
Which types of dildos suit beginners?
Many beginners start with a smooth, non-realistic silicone dildo with a flared or suction-cup base. Silicone is soft, body-safe and easy to clean, while a simple shape feels less intimidating. A gentle curve can also help with comfort. Start slowly, use plenty of water-based lube and choose a type that feels right to you.
What is the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?
A dildo is a toy for penetration that usually has no motor, so any movement comes from you. A vibrator has a motor that creates vibrations, and it may be used inside or outside the body. Vibrating dildos sit between the two, because they combine a dildo shape with a vibration motor.
Can you use a dildo with a strap-on harness?
Many dildos work with a strap-on harness, but not all of them. Look for a flared base or a suction-cup base, because the harness ring holds the toy in place by its base. Double-ended dildos and toys with a very narrow base usually do not fit. Check the product page for harness compatibility.
Choosing Between the Types of Dildos
In short, the types of dildos differ mainly in shape, material, base and whether they vibrate. Think about what you want to feel, whether you prefer a lifelike or abstract look, and how you want to use it. Then choose a body-safe material and keep it clean. Ready to compare styles? Browse our full range of dildos to find a type that suits you.
