How to make jerking off even better! We talk a lot about masturbation on our blog and that’s because it’s a bloody great way to pass the time, and get some energy, or help you fall asleep, or relieve crampy pain, or for a whole bunch of other reasons but, for the most part, we often focus solely on female masturbation.
That’s for a few reasons, the main one being that, while men are often given the green light to tug and play and explore from a very early age, women are not, and so we try very hard to break down the stigma, taboo, and shame associated with women touching their own bodies.
But today we’re going down a different road because, while men usually do have a lot more permissions in their lives to be sexual, they often don’t have a lot of permission to be indulgent and self caring in their wanking (or indeed any sexual) pursuits.
When we talk to women about masturbation we talk about her “seducing” herself, “loving her body”, taking the time and the care to explore and learn. We suggest candles and baths and soft music and silky sheets, but when the conversation turns to male masturbation we so often feel it needs to be very “manly”.
Tug it. Blow it. Wipe it. Get on with your day. Grrr! Alpha! MACHO!
But, for the record, that’s bullshit. On both sides.
There is nothing at all wrong with a woman doing the wham-bam-thankya-ma’am on herself for quick relief, just as there is nothing wrong with a man taking the time to really get into the feel and rhythm and indulgence of a really good wank.
So here’s a few tips and tricks from the men in my world regarding the best ways to take your wanking to the next level and really indulge yourself.
Known as edging this is the practice of masturbating until juuuuust before you climax and stopping, letting your breathing and your blood pressure go back to normal, maybe even letting your cock lose some of its hardness… And then doing it again… And again… Until you eventually let yourself come. And omg come you will! An edging orgasm is pretty intense and can totally change the way you play overall.
You can edge four times. You can edge all day. Some guys I know try and edge for a few days just to really get the build up… And the good news is it’s not just for fun! If you’re a guy who is worried he doesn’t last long enough, or is overly sensitive to some activities, edging can totally train your body to last longer, stay harder, and really begin to know itself and its pleasure and trigger points.
So we all know that lube is an essential part of masturbation. It helps keep things slippery and slidey and feeling good, but did you know there are lubes you can buy that have added stuff in them that can make your skin tingle and buzz and even, in some instances, make your cock even harder? Well it’s true! Depending on whether you like a cool or a hot sensation there are lubes that contain things like menthol or capsicum to create all sorts of delicious feelings in those sensitive areas.
I will suggest on your first tries with these you keep a wet wash cloth handy just in case you don’t enjoy the sensations and need to get the product off quickly, but have a chat to your local adult shop staff and they’ll be able to suggest some great “sensation lubes” for you to try.
Sex toys are excellent and not just for vaginas and clits etc… even the ones you think are just made for vaginas and clits can be used by penises another bits. Running a vibrator along the shaft of your cock can be incredibly erotic, teasing the head with its pulses and shakes. Or what about placing a rumbly, low vibrating wand against the perineum as your slippery, lubey hands play and pull and please yourself.
There are all sorts of toys made for penises these days that go beyond the original, but still best-selling Fleshlight products, but even those are brilliant for self bonking. No matter your budget you’ll find a sleeve that can work for you and these days they come in so many different styles you’ll be spoiled for choice. From vibrating cock rings to oral sex simulators, and let’s not forget about the ones for those other body bits that often get neglected when just playing alone.
The penis is great, it really is, but don’t neglect those other sensitive areas when you play, or you could be missing out on all sorts of fun.
Your balls for example… stroking and squeezing and fondling them as you masturbate can add to the eroticism as can teasing the perineum and, of course we cannot forget the deep yet incredible source of intense male pleasure, the prostate.
Prostate toys are finally getting the recognition and use they deserve and I think that’s absolutely fantastic. Being an adult shop worker for many years I watched as they went from something asked for in whispered tones and blushing cheeks, to blokes coming in on their lunch breaks with other blokes to show them the ones they had told them about.
Understanding that butt play isn’t gay unless you’re, you know, gay, has been a liberation for so many men and I cant wait to see it become as normalised and easy for them to talk about as wanking is.
I’ve always said the best way to have the best sex is to know how to have sex with yourself first and I think that goes for all genders and sexualities. If you know what you like and are willing to explore and experiment with yourself, you’re more likely to be open, adventurous and communicative in your sexual encounters with others, and far more in tune to both their and your own pleasure.
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