How to give her mind blowing multiple orgasms before sex. Understand & always remember that sex is an act to be enjoyed. So i always take time to arouse her. I understand that penetration is just one of the sexual acts. There are many other exciting things that can be done to make her climax back to back. This is my way of doing it. This is the way i have always used. So it definitely works. In most of the situations, if used effectively & with imagination, the girl will surely have at least 3 or 4 Pre-penetration orgasms and then she can have few more while penetration. The great thing about this way is that this will give her so many orgasms even before the act of penetration.
For me, being a man, orgasm of a girl or female orgasm is as important as my own orgasm if not more. Also it makes the girl so wild that she would return the pleasure in all the wild ways, without me asking for it. So I take penetration as just a technique to give a girl orgasm and I always use this outline that works for me every time.
Start Arousing Her Mind & Foreplay with her
Start arousing her Mind even before you meet. Build the thrill. The more thrilled she is, the easier it is to give her multiple orgasms. Below texts are to let your imagination go wild –
“I have got something planned for later, and i think you will like it”“I dont like sitting in office, when i could be doing things with you”, “I had the wildest dream last night”, ” Why can’t I just be lying beside you in bed instead of studying/working… 🙁”, “if i were there with you, i would have….” (this works like charm)
Foreplay is super crucial.
Make out with her so good that she feels like a gorgeous princess. Being a man you have to communicate how much you CRAVE every inch of her body by your hungry actions. Body language should clearly communicate your craving for her. Never let her relax from this moment onwards. Be really really hungry for her and show it to her how much you crave.
Make out with her:
Make out with her. Take time. Take it slow. Build the energy. Build the craving. Build the sexual tension. Use sounds, touches, squeezes, words till she disengages and tells you “Lets go to my car”, “lets go to your room” or “Lets go to some place quiet”
Lick and suck her pussy and clit & Give her first few orgasms with your tongue and sucking her clitoris
And you will soon feel her squirm, twitch, moan, arch and fall back and getting to edge of multiple orgasms. Hold her hand and if needed pin her on the bed to keep her still. If needed use some force to prevent her from pushing you away. She might push your head onto her pussy, then trust me she really enjoys what you are doing and all you have to do is to continue doing that and soon She will have amazing back to back orgasms..
Finger-Feel Her Sweetly
She deserves this as she will be super wet already with all the licking she’s received and if she is comfortable with you and is easily-arousable, then she must have orgasmed a few times already. Make sure you have neat manicured fingers and trimmed nails till the flesh of your finger is above the nail line. Feel her lips gently. Move your fingers along the edges of her lips
Once she starts to ooze so good, Insert one finger gently, Curve it up with palm upward and feel for the soft roof inside her pussy. Take your time. Always be alert about her reactions. Now start moving the fingers as if you are calling someone near. Use one finger, then if she is comfortable use 2 fingers.
Pace up your fingering
If possible slightly up your fingering pace, and she might have a few more orgasms there and might even squirt
Technique of alternation
I Lick her vagina alternately, to give her more pleasure. This works like magic to take her closer to convulsing orgasms
Tickle her G-spot till she orgasms a few more times
Continue Fingering her fast till she cums again and even squirts. Feel her arch up, squelch, scream, shiver, shake and even squirt her juices. Watch her reactions before she cums and better still before she squirts. If your position allows reach out, lean and suck her nipples and bit her neck.. See how it is done:
Prep her for Squirting
Do what gives her maximum pleasure till she squirts: At this point if she is really aroused, she will cum like never before and if you keep urging her “baby, cum for me. This is your moment. Forget all your inhibitions. Squirt for me. You will look so sexy when you squirt, baby squirt for me. I want to give you so much pleasure that you will squirt…because you are not afraid to cum. You are not afraid you will wet the dress, or sheets, you are not afraid what he would think. Baby, squirt like a sex godess for me. Cum like you have never cum before. This is your moment…cum for me baby…squirt for me”. Reassure her till she lets her guards down and squirts like a river…
Start Arousing Her Mind & Foreplay with her
Start arousing her Mind even before you meet. Build the thrill. The more thrilled she is, the easier it is to give her multiple orgasms. Below texts are to let your imagination go wild –
“I have got something planned for later, and i think you will like it”“I dont like sitting in office, when i could be doing things with you”, “I had the wildest dream last night”, ” Why can’t I just be lying beside you in bed instead of studying/working… 🙁”, “if i were there with you, i would have….” (this works like charm)
Foreplay is super crucial.
Make out with her so good that she feels like a gorgeous princess. Being a man you have to communicate how much you CRAVE every inch of her body by your hungry actions. Body language should clearly communicate your craving for her. Never let her relax from this moment onwards. Be really really hungry for her and show it to her how much you crave.
Make out with her:
Make out with her. Take time. Take it slow. Build the energy. Build the craving. Build the sexual tension. Use sounds, touches, squeezes, words till she disengages and tells you “Lets go to my car”, “lets go to your room” or “Lets go to some place quiet”
Lick and suck her pussy and clit & Give her first few orgasms with your tongue and sucking her clitoris
And you will soon feel her squirm, twitch, moan, arch and fall back and getting to edge of multiple orgasms. Hold her hand and if needed pin her on the bed to keep her still. If needed use some force to prevent her from pushing you away. She might push your head onto her pussy, then trust me she really enjoys what you are doing and all you have to do is to continue doing that and soon She will have amazing back to back orgasms..
Finger-Feel Her Sweetly
She deserves this as she will be super wet already with all the licking she’s received and if she is comfortable with you and is easily-arousable, then she must have orgasmed a few times already. Make sure you have neat manicured fingers and trimmed nails till the flesh of your finger is above the nail line. Feel her lips gently. Move your fingers along the edges of her lips
Insert Fingers
Once she starts to ooze so good, Insert one finger gently, Curve it up with palm upward and feel for the soft roof inside her pussy. Take your time. Always be alert about her reactions. Now start moving the fingers as if you are calling someone near. Use one finger, then if she is comfortable use 2 fingers.
Pace up your fingering
If possible slightly up your fingering pace, and she might have a few more orgasms there and might even squirt
Technique of alternation
I Lick her vagina alternately, to give her more pleasure. This works like magic to take her closer to convulsing orgasms
Tickle her G-spot till she orgasms a few more times
Continue Fingering her fast till she cums again and even squirts. Feel her arch up, squelch, scream, shiver, shake and even squirt her juices. Watch her reactions before she cums and better still before she squirts. If your position allows reach out, lean and suck her nipples and bit her neck.. See how it is done:
Prep her for Squirting
Do what gives her maximum pleasure till she squirts: At this point if she is really aroused, she will cum like never before and if you keep urging her “baby, cum for me. This is your moment. Forget all your inhibitions. Squirt for me. You will look so sexy when you squirt, baby squirt for me. I want to give you so much pleasure that you will squirt…because you are not afraid to cum. You are not afraid you will wet the dress, or sheets, you are not afraid what he would think. Baby, squirt like a sex godess for me. Cum like you have never cum before. This is your moment…cum for me baby…squirt for me”. Reassure her till she lets her guards down and squirts like a river…
Eat her again & prolong her orgasmic bliss:
Yes, you are not done eating her. So Suddenly stop fingering and go down on her and suck her pussy and relish her wet dripping pussy. This has worked like magic for me. Because she is completely aroused and her orgasm and pleasure and bliss are at the peak, and she is not expecting me to go down, that is when i go down and suck her clit and vaginal lips.
Yes this is messy now. Yes ! Her pussy will be soo wet and gooey and creamy by now after her multiple orgasms and squirting, but you can give her more pleasure if you can suck on her pussy even when it is oozing and when she is uncontrollably squirting and blind in pleasure. The more passionate you are about her taste and scent, the more she will get turned on. This kills her inhibition how she looks and feels down there. When she finds a man who is turned on when she is oozing and unclean, she will feel so really happy and this will make her loose control about you. And trust me the more passionate you make her, the more orgasm she gets and more times she cums and squirts. She must be squirting all over your face, filling your mouth with juices, but enjoy it. She will love you for it.
Eat her with full mouth
Really make her feel you will swallow her. And dont forget to finger her deep and keep tickling her g-spot. This is very important. Trust me, she will keep cuming on and on for this, if you do it right.
Long slurps:
This might look simple. But its a killer. This lick is very expressive. And if she is really wet and squirting, you will get all juices, wetness and her moisture on your tongue. Whenever you lick dry her pussy, make her sit up on her back if you are in bed, because that will make her see what you are doing. Show her juices on your tongue and then swallow it. This has 3 incredible benefits as far as i am concerned: 1. This makes her really happy that you love her body and worship every inch of it. 2. This act alone will make her squirt and orgasm more times. 3. This will make her so turned on that she would want to return the same love and act for you too.
This can really drive her crazy as the tongue which is infinitely flexible and the clitoris which is the center where millions of nerves end. Stimulation of this female pleasure point will arouse her like none other and just by this act, you may give her orgasms.
This is a logical extension of the last step. As she starts to give out signs of intense arousal by her strong urges to pee, cum and her intense physical movements such as shivering, shaking and thigh vibrations etc. keep sucking her clitoris to maximize her orgasm duration and number of her orgasms. Some girls are likely to cum multiple times when clitoris is sucked. There are exceptions as well.
The full body orgasm
If you have successfully done all the above, she would lose count how many times she came. She would wonder, if she has strength left to have real penetration sex. Watch for her reactions…especially the big O before she cums hard…as below
Based on my experience, if you have managed to do everything till this point, she must have cum really hard so many times that she would only want a penetration to complete the act because she would be so exhausted by multiple and repeated orgasms. Some girls would just want to hug and sleep, some would want to give the oral pleasure back to such an extend that they would want to do wild sexy fantasies that they always wanted to do such as swallowing sperm, anal, shower sex, kitchen sex, wall sex, mouth fuck, bdsm etc.
These are few straight ways i use to give my girl back to back orgasms before i have real sex with her. As i mentioned at the beginning, use your imagination, mix and match the steps all the way and you will make her cum & squirt even more. I have had experiences where girls slept before i even made love to her. I have also had a few women who told me that they came a few times on their way to meet me, because i am absolutely crazy about things i love to do to girls i adore. So put your heart into it. Pleasure in sex is not about you, its about your partner. So give a lot & take a lot. Your partner will love you for it.
PS: As far as i know, for a girl, her private parts and her discharges are few of her biggest insecurities. So if you can love her private parts and her juices & make her feel that she is tasty, it will turn her on and she might even have more orgasms, then and there looking at your hunger, whimpering, moans etc as you suck and swallow her juices as they spray and flow out of her pussy. If you can keep reminding her how tasty she is and how beautiful her vagina is (but don’t over do this), she might cum and orgasm like a stop-clock. And every time she hears your voice, she might cum. I know a few girls who wet her sheets and panties hearing me say how i crave for their pussy. But you always go to remember girls are different and what works for one, may not work for another. As i said, there is no one way to make her climax. But if the man can use all his assets, then he can make his girl cum multiple times. I know.
I am not suggesting that this approach is quick or will work on all females on all situations. But if you can apply it tweaking it contextually, this can work wonders. Trust me, by mastering these and if you are lucky enough, a girl might even cum a few times and she will arrive with a wet panty and flushed and blushed look for the date.
Since arousal in women lasts really long, and orgasm for her is mostly about her mind, making her climax more times during the date or after the date will be not be that difficult.
PS: It makes me so happy that so many guys & girls found this post informative and arousing. I know for certain that this would serve as a nice, gentle hot reminder about the importance of giving orgasms to your girl and you don’t have to be a Don Juan to edge, arouse, climax and even squirt a girl. All you need is your fingers and your tongue. And in due course of the session she will tell you when she wants to you to make love to her.
But i wonder what women think about this post? If you are a woman reading this post i would love to know if these moves give you tingles deep inside your sweet honey pot 🔥😊? Do you get the shivers as you think if your partner did this to you? Can these moves give you arousal, orgasm and make you squirt if situations are in favour? Please comment
